Choosing your Adults-only resort generally comes down to knowing what you want and what you can expect from your hotel. Are you looking for something romantic or risqué? Exclusive or exhibitionist? Luxurious or lascivious? Perhaps, you want a combination of all of the above.

Adults-only resorts are as unique and varied as the singles, couples, and groups that vacation at them. Here are a few things to keep in mind when it comes to choosing the perfect place to temporarily to hang your hat and/or straps:

Atmosphere

Restaurants aren’t the only place where you can pick your spice level. If you’re in search of a getaway where you can get it on, Adults-only resorts offer a wide range of potential atmospheres.

Those seeking a romantic and relaxing escape may prefer adults-only hotels that offer greater exclusivity with private beaches or personal infinity pools. Resorts like Nayara Bocas del Toro in Panama offer a secluded private island paradise, allowing its guests a chance to disconnect from the world among vibrant coral reefs.

On the other hand, if you’re looking to meet other like-minded travelers, you may prefer Adults-only resorts geared towards more socializing. In that case, you can search for those that provide activities like snorkeling or horseback riding. Spots like Triple Creek Ranch in Montana provide unique offerings like archery and mountain biking for those looking for an alternative to sun-soaked beaches.

If you’ve got something sultrier in mind, there are also resorts that provide a more explicit experience. For example, The Lexi in Las Vegas has a goth-like vibe, erotic art, and a top-optional pool. Jamaica’s Hedonism II resort is even more X-rated with group-friendly hot tubs and designated areas for public sex, while Temptation Cancun Resort offers a party vibe mixed with a more upscale atmosphere.

These kinds of Adults-only resorts can range from sensual to seedy, offering singles, couples, and groups a variety of options for exploring their kinkier side.

Another factor to keep in mind when choosing your resort is who you’re traveling with.

Singles vs. Couples vs. Groups

Who you are (or aren’t) traveling with is just as important as where you’re traveling to when it comes to choosing your adults-only resort.

Some adults-only resorts are specifically geared towards couples. In fact, some literally designate themselves as couple-only resorts and can be a great option for couples looking to elope or go on a romantic honeymoon. While these kinds of resorts can offer some alternative lifestyle elements, like topless or nude areas, for the most part they emphasize romance over risqué.

Whether traveling solo or with a group, if you’re feeling sexually adventurous, resorts with a social, party-oriented atmosphere may offer a better bang for your buck—pun not unintended. Search for spots that offer a strong nightlife, a number of activities, and encourage guests to socialize with each other.

Also, if you’re traveling with others, be sure to discuss everyone’s comfort-level and expectations for the trip before booking your resort. Just like planning how many pairs (and what flavor) of underwear to bring, being on the same page as your partner or group will help in choosing an adults-only resort that keeps everyone happy.

All-Inclusive vs. Not

There are a number of Adults-only resorts that also offer all-inclusive packages which can be a great way to have a worry-free vacation. Paying for the majority of your amenities before you get to the resort means that once you’re there, you can stay in the moment without worrying if you’re spending over your planned budget. With all the free drinks, food, and activities you can handle, these resorts are a perfect way to  stay care-free and budget-friendly.

That being said, make sure to read the fine print. Even all-inclusive resorts usually have some things that incur an extra charge, like luxury spa services or speciality food items. Additionally, they tend not to offer the most authentic options when it comes to local cuisine or getting to know the area. Since you’ve already paid for everything, these resorts are usually better for those okay with mostly staying put at the resort. For those looking for more adventure outside the resort, an all-inclusive hotel may not be the way to go.

At the end of the day, choosing your Adults-only resort requires knowing what kind of experience you want to have and doing the research to make sure the place you choose checks all those boxes.

If researching your perfect vacation spot feels overwhelming, The HedoNest, a travel design firm well-versed in the world of luxury Adults-only, subculture and alternative lifestyle travel, is here to lend a hand. Vacations are meant to be relaxing. Why not make planning your vacation relaxing too?

Contact  us today to find out more about how we can help you plan your perfect getaway.